Life is relationships

Life is relationships and all relationships are energy transactions. The reason why we say that is because there are many factors that affect any relationship. It can be past lives, planetary positions, karmic cycles and many more that is why, relationships will either give you energy or drain away your energy. Everything is relationship, the problem is when we use the word relationship, you tend to imagine only relationships that you have with each other as a human, but you also share relationship with animals, tree and even non-living things. But when we speak of human relationship, since it involves the self , it has become more like give and take relationships.

Anything with ‘self’ involved in it has to go through cycles. Some relationships might give you joy, happiness etc. while some does not. The best way to verify this is to see the ‘what is’ and contemplate on which relationship gives you energy and which does not.

Please understand, in this process of contemplation, it does not mean that you judge, condemn, or analyze the acts of other person or that relationship. It is not about the other but it’s always about you. If there is hurt, pain, and hatred it is within you and not in other. Hence the best way is to stay with it and experience it completely.

That being said, What about the relationship which you feel is not giving you energy and you cannot drop it either? You must work upon it , try to see the charges, the blocks, your jealously and insecurity, the images that you have created in that relationship and most importantly, see how your ego is working to break that relationship. Try to set right that relationship.

 Always ask yourself to set right relationships. It is an internal work. How you deal eternally is up to you. You need to set it right within. You need to start seeing the hurt, charges, your jealousy, your insecurities within yourself and stay with it, experience it. Then things will automatically transform. So it is an internal work. Externally how you deal with anyone is something that you do and decide based on situations.